#1 Leave little notes in unexpected places!
You want her to know that you are thinking of her throughout the day. You will be her HERO if you do this! Women love little surprises and she will be bragging to all of her girlfriends about what a wonderful man she has!! I can't tell you where to put them, you will figure it out.
Myself, I have left my man notes in the plastic bag that I put his sandwich in. I have left little love notes under the shaving cream, inside a folded pair of underwear, inside his coat pocket, inside his Bible, in his briefcase, his suit pocket and over the visor in his car, just to name a few.
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#2 - When she looks or smells great, TELL her!
Don't assume she knows she looks good or smells nice. Everyone wants and needs to hear when others notice them. She will want to ALWAYS look and smell nice for you, if you let her know how much you appreciate her taking pride in herself. She married YOU because she wanted to make you happy - tell her she's succeeding.
When I was much younger, I was pretty self-centered and I didn't have many friends. I decided to take a self-assessment and learn what I could do to turn that around. I learned that you will be much more pleasant to be around if you take the focus off of yourself and notice the good in others and then TELL them. Give them a compliment! You cannot believe how hard this was for me in the beginning. It felt awkward and insincere. But I kept using this technique, and it worked. I began noticing the good in others and by telling them that I noticed it, made me feel better about myself and I was no longer self-centered, had lots of friends and began receiving compliments MYSELF! Funny how that works! Give - and you get back a hundred fold!
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#3 - Put Some Music in Your Life
Music ALWAYS lightens the mood. When she gets home from work, or after dinner, or just before you two drift off to sleep, put on some music you know she likes.
I know after I have had a stressful day at work, music will not only calm me down, but will put me in a much better mood so that I am more receptive to my husband's advances. Then, at bedtime, it is soothing and relaxing and yes, even romantic. Play music for her and she will respond and she will thank you for putting her in better spirits.
She will be even more impressed if you play one of her favorites and dance with her. She'll be amazed that you remembered that it was her favorite and since she'll already be in your arms, she'll probably kiss you!
#4 - Thank Her For the Little Things SHE Does
If she does something sweet or thoughtful for you, THANK HER! But also realize that not only is she sweet, but she may be sending you a signal that she would like the same thing done for her, but from the heart.
Most of my ideas of the little things I can do for my spouse, come from the premise "If someone did this for ME, would it make ME feel loved?" Because, whatever will make ME happy, will also please someone else.
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#5 - Make Her Breakfast In Bed
I know this sounds corny or cliche' but she will think you are the greatest! Women LOVE to be waited on, but rarely get it. Think about all the hundreds of meals she's made for you, so show her you appreciate it. It doesn't matter WHAT you make for her, she will be thrilled that you did it!!
Source: Office.microsoft.com
#6 - Mail Her a Greeting Card
Do you want to tell her how much you love her, but you're not so good with words? You are not alone. That's why the greeting card business is a huge business. So pick out a greeting card that will say it for you. She'll be so surprised and she will be so touched by your thoughtfulness!! AND she'll love it that you actually MAILED it to her, especially if she's the one to open the mailbox.
Not in the romantic mood? Women also love it when a man can make them laugh! Pick out a funny card to send to her. Has she had a stressful week at work? Send her the card to give her a pick me up. This lets her know you've noticed she's been stressed and you wanted her to know you care.
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#7 - Share Fond Memories
When is the last time you shared a great memory from your wedding or a sentimental thing you remember from one of your first dates together?
Remind her of those memories that have stayed with you and why they stuck in your heart and mind. Why not sit down together and go through some old photos of those good times, possibly even bringing out the wedding album, or pictures from the honeymoon.
Reminding her of why you fell in love with her in the first place is an important step towards renewing those feelings, and making sparks fly once again!
Source: Office.microsoft.com
#8 - Pick a Chore She Hates and Do It FOR Her
Without being asked, do something for her that you KNOW she hates doing. For example, if you know whe hates doing the grocery shopping -------- get the list and go do it for her. If there's no list, tell her you want to know what she needs so you can go the store and get it for her.
Most women do most of the housecleaning, and your woman probably does too! Don't let her do all the work. Take it upon yourself to do some of the cleaning (for once) to let her know you're trying to make things easier for her.
Women feel like you don't notice when the house is sparkling clean. They think you only notice when it's messy or unkempt. Each week, help her do the housecleaning. It won't kill you and the cleaning will get done much quicker when you share the load. This lets her know you appreciate a clean house and that you're willing to pitch-in to keep it that way.
Source: Office.microsoft.com
#9 - Finally Fix It!
Is there something around the house or elsewhere that she has asked you to fix so many times, but has stopped asking, because she figures it will never get done?
A GOOD woman doesn't like to nag. She'll ask you a few times to fix that door that won't shut, or put up the towel bar that came off the wall again, or put up that shelf in the laundry room, but when something is NOT getting done, she may simply give up asking you. And maybe that's what most men are waiting for, so they won't have to do it at all.
The last time you asked HER to make your favorite meal, she made it didn't she? Well, then, do this for HER. Fix whatever it is she has asked you to fix, but gave up asking you any more. This will REALLY make her want to do more for YOU!
Source: Office.microsoft.com
#10 - Send Her Text Messages
Don't know how to text? LEARN . . . . for HER! Then text her during the day, out of the blue. Say something like "I meant to tell you how pretty you looked this morning when you left for work" OR "you are all I can think about today, I miss you!" OR simply tell her "Have a good day sweetheart!"
Many men don't want to text. They feel like, "why should I take the time to text, when I can just call her on the phone?"
Well, one of the nice things about texting is, no one can hear what you're saying! A person can have a PRIVATE conversation without being overheard by coworkers! Also men, we cannot always answer our phones while we are at work, but when we have stopped for a quick break and see that you have text us, it brightens up our day!! You don't have to carry on a long conversation with texting, it's just for quick messaging. So send her a few quick messages throughout the day to let her know that you are thinking of her. When she gets home that afternoon, she will not only be happy to see you, she will thank you for letting her know you were thinking of her.
Source: Office.microsoft.com
#11 - The Hair, Kiss, Hug Move!
Want her attention? Come up behind her (but don't scare her), without saying a word, move her hair away from the back of her neck and kiss her there, put your arms around her, hug her and hold her tight. Don't be in a hurry to let her go. Enjoy the moment.
She'll drop whatever she's doing and give you her full attention, maybe more! Of course, if you haven't done this in 20 years, she may be suspicious and wonder what you want, so try not to wait so long to do it.
Source: Office.microsoft.com
#12 - Major Stress Reliever
Did she come home in a bad mood because work really got to her? Tell her not to worry about dinner, you'll order dinner in. Then tell her to meet you in the bathroom because you're going to start running a nice hot relaxing bath for her. Don't forget to light candles for her!!
She'll be so pleased, she may even invite you to join her . . . .before the water gets cold!!
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